Somewhere far away something bad is happening to someone, somewhere far away someone is ill, somewhere far away a tragedy has happened to someone, somewhere far away someone needs help. We all start from here, that everything is bad somewhere far away, and is that so? Whether it is really far or not only close to us, whether we really only detect that someone far away needs help, and we do not hear our scream or the scream of someone close, because we assume that it comes from far away.

Someone needs help every second, this time I will focus only on psychological help, although every one is also needed. For a start, let’s assume it’s not that far, let’s assume we hear someone calling us out loud, someone sitting next to us and not saying a single word. Someone who sits next to us and laughs out loud, someone who sits next to us and is absent, someone who sits next to us and does not say that he needs help and in the end someone who sits next to us and asks for help, one way or another.

Let’s listen again, maybe it’s not so loud, maybe you can’t hear the voice, maybe you can hear the cry, desperate, hopeless, maybe someone’s heart screams, calls, asks for love, attention, a warm word or just a hug.

Let’s check again how much we listen to each other, how much we listen to the unspoken, how much we are actually ready to hear ourselves. It takes a lot of courage, a lot of strength, but is there another option, maybe not for you, but if there is, the worst, and the only possible for someone, we are already shaken by thoughts and mentions, so let’s think about how yours is a friend who listens to it in his head all the time.

I know it is scary, I don’t feel that way and he must be joking, it must be a bad day for him, it will pass, I won’t touch him there, it must hurt, it must be hard for him, I better get out of the way.

No! Listen, look, ask, touch, hug, offer everything that is in your power, it is not so harmless, and your listening means to him, trust him, it is difficult, do not belittle what is bothering him, he cannot do otherwise at the moment, it hurts. Give him your hand, give him a chance, give yourself a chance, hug him, let him feel, feel and you, it will mean both.

Love is the only medicine that heals everything, it works miracles, helps, heals the incurable. Give it to yourself and you will be healing to others.